Painful Regret

Today I just recalled a day in my life once. After a stressful day in office when I reached home in the evening my mother came to me to ask for something. It was like she almost started a simple conversation like do you like to have a coffee or what would you like to have for dinner. Since I had a bad day my response was Rude and I just said leave me alone. After sometime I realised my mistake and started feeling bad for my behavior. I understood that whatever may be the issue for my bad mood my loved ones were not the reason for it then why do I show my frustrations on them. This happened many times in my life that I realised my mistake of shouting at my Mom but couldn't apologize to her. I started thinking that am I taking her granted since she will never leave me and go however I behave with her. Many may not like if I say this but such a feeling of Regret is very painful than physical pain. Just have patience and try to be little soft with our parents. 

After a certain age they forget upgrading themselves as per changing time. Often when they are unable to cope up with the changing life they need our help. It would be great if we can hold their hands to manage with this technology driven daily life. Small which we can do are like guiding them to understand the gadgets in the mobile, using advanced way of internet. We all would have experienced such situations in our lives. So let us not show any kind of frustrations on our elders and give them a helping hand to adjust in our busy lifestyle. Trust me one day if we shout at them or use any word which should not be used then any other day if they are not with us we will Regret and that feeling will be very hurting!! Let's spread only Love but not Hatred.

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