Vismaya

If you have recently entered Motherhood with lot of questions in your mind like What's good and what's wrong for my child. Forget it what's more important is that you are a Mommy now and you are blessed to become a mother of a cutie pie. Whether you are a new Mom or you are an older Mom what matters is that your energy levels should always be same and at the highest peak as long as you believe that you can bring smile in your child's face.  Being a mother is not about what you gave up to have a child, but what you’ve gained by having one. Only few pointers to follow to bring smiles within and around. Always have positive mindset We can't say everyday is Sunday or evey month is a vacation. There might be troublesome days and nightouts which we need to do when we are at the feeding time of a newborn.  Your positive vibes are very important which will reflect your child who is fed by you. Your sleeplessness nights should not be your nightmare i...

It was the most melodious music which I used to set my alarm tone but still the minute I hear that, my heart starts racing and as usual I got up with a stressful mind, left-over thoughts from previous day and highly ambitious life goals. Then I stopped for a minute and looked into my palms smiled and thanked God as I woke up healthy today. Again I realised that it’s a new day with new opportunities. Looked at my child and told myself let’s have a Rocking day. Most of us who see more challenges in life leave a lot of stress to our minds at the start of the day which doesn’t allow us to utilise the fullest energy. Let’s plan our day with a positive note make the most of it today. Here are few steps followed in my daily routine to make every day special. #Wake up early Early wake up is a great start to make it a complete day. This is the first step to win yourself and a day early started will be always the day well spent #Kickstart your day with Yoga Daily dose of Yoga with my son. Yoga h...

Boys are more naughty and need more pampered by parents. They take more time to learn and adjust. Boys start speaking very late. These are the common statements we heard from my Relatives, neighbours and even his Doctor. Me and my husband also got carried away with the same opinion and didn't pay much attention to my child's speech delay and unnatural behaviour. By the time we identified there is a problem it was late and the question is did we miss the Early intervention period for Autism Spectrum Disorder. I'm Durga, love to be called as an Autism Mom which makes me stronger all the time as I'm left with no other option. My son is diagnosed with Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) at the age of 4.  Autism , or  autism  spectrum disorder (ASD), refers to a broad range of conditions characterized by challenges with social skills, repetitive behaviors, speech and nonverbal communication. According to the Centers for Disease Control,  autism  affects an est...

When we find a lead role in a movie with all leading qualities and without whom the Movie cannot sustain we give the Hero title to the actor so why not the title to given to a Mom who makes everything perfect for her child at right time. Well i feel Hero is a person who makes it a better place to live for people so for a child always the Hero will be his Mom until he gets fascinated by the fictious stories. An Autism Mom a Superhero It becomes quite obvious to understand the day to day needs of your child after all you be physically and emotionally attached with your child to know his needs and wants everytime but it's not easy to find the needs of an Autistic child as it is unpredictable and based upon the moods of the child. And I was not knowing how to act according to my child's mood swings. He was very hyperactive at times and all of a sudden becomes moody. When he is in a bad mood I don't know what disturbs him so bad within himself that he starts crying...

The Moment you get to know that your kid is diagnosed with Autism spectrum disorder you will be shattered and lose all hopes from life but it's the moment to regain strength and be a super power, as your child needs you the most with Unconditional Love. No one wishes to have their child to be Autistic but if it is what decided for you then accept the challenge and make it a better life for you and your child.  You are your savior You find lonely roads far and far forever and Everyone one starts isolating you. Because you are out to fulfill the desires of your child which is endless and forget everything and everyone else. I often wonder why everyone dislikes me at times but I realise that I am tired and tired always tired so I lost connect with people around me so how can I admire my child. To be an autism mom may mean like often feeling overwhelmed with sadness that your child is burdened with a lot of struggles. But I woke up one day and thought that I have to be happ...

One day when you woke up and you find nothing about yourself for the day. Yes everyone needs you and keeps high expectations on you to serve better every time. But atleast you should not forget yourself when everyone else does. Your Happiness matters a lot and it is not coming in its way. So get the Happiness to your life by hook or crook. You have all the rights on your own life and you choose your life to be happy and successful. Your Life purpose Many of us will forget at one point of time when you have lost control over it that your Life has a purpose and you need to discover it. We are all sent to this World not for just spending quality time but to add some meaning to our Life. What Gives Your Life Meaning. ...  Your life has its ups and downs, times of clarity and confusion. Yet it has a Rich meaning, that you need to unfold by living your purpose. Now you can't ask the purpose to live your own life to someone. Ask yourself not verbally, ...

I was observing him today when he was writing something in the book, suddenly a thought hit my mind that My six year old little one is no longer a little one. He is growing daily and day by day I can see changes in him. But question arises day by day am I feeding him well? Feed Mind and body equally We give our baby vitamin rich and nutritious food. Good food always keeps your baby healthy but what else he needs to keep his mind healthy. It's time to think that not only feeding stomach is important but your mind should be equally healthy to deal with the worst in the world. Healthy Mind make right choices When it comes to our brain we learnt from ages that eating Almonds, walnuts, Broccoli and avacado can boost your brain. I am definitely not a nutritionist but the best diet can make his brain sharp but how to make his mind and soul healthy and peaceful. His thought process should be focused and diffused . This happens by feeding your baby's m...