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Never take it for granted!!

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It was a Saturday afternoon when I remembered what a Doctor from Nimhans advised me 5 years back. It was in 2018 when I visited Nimhans I remembered many kids like my son and many mothers in confused and distressed situation like me.  The Doctor reviewed him and advised us many things among which he told always be watchful with him which was a very common advice. And 5 years after today I feel better, confident and strong enough in this Journey. I owe it all to the great souls who supported, tolerated and advocated me till this date. I fall, I rise, I make mistakes, I live, I have been hurt but I'm alive. But at this point of my journey never like before I experienced a unexpected hypnic jerk which awakened me.  Me and my son went for a much awaiting play date with his friend at a park with Slide, Swing, ball shooters and many more physical activities and sensory toys. It was a very playful Environment and we are visiting this place for the third time. The first 2 experiences in th

Journey of Faith begins with Sense

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When I started writing this story, I have messed up many thoughts in my mind which doesn't come in an organized way. Though I thought that it is too early to start writing about a new change in my son's life but I am overwhelmed and couldn't stop to speak up my mind when I could see a ray of hope in his life now. Yes, By now he just completed his first week in Sense Kaleidoscope and I feel, this is the place where he is content with his little happiness.  I came across the name of the school Sense Kaleidoscope (SK) when I was actively searching for a special school for my son Vismay who is 7 years old now. He was going to a normal school from the age of 4 but couldn't progress academically when I understood that he needs individual care and attention. I gone through the website and articles of SK, was widely impressed with the kind of approach here. It's not ABA (Applied Behavior analysis), not an alternative school or a special school but I found it very different

Why did I grow up?

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As a kid I was very eager to grow up but still was unaware of what actually happens when we grow old. It's never the same place it's never the same people. Neither a physically and mentally healthy childhood nor a very good school or teacher I had where we could design good dreams, but was still feeling safe and warm as we are surrounded by our family. With immature minds and finding happiness in little things I was overwhelmed with all the little happy moments whenever I get it but sooner I started realising that happy moments are like a holiday time and leave me very soon. So, I live with it as much as I can. Time was fleeting that I couldn't hold on the moments spent. Tried to fight with my fate but fallen badly.  Cried out and shouted loudly but things are moving fast leaving me behind. The message which I couldn't get initially was to 'keep moving'.  Parting ways with loved ones Am I not an ambitious girl in life? I questioned to myself many tim

Soothing effect

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Why don't you make a wish?? If someone asks so we get many options and sometimes we may be confused to make a wish as it was asked only for a wish but not too many. So we wanted to make the best one and we start choosing for Happiness, fortune, Money or Worldly pleasures which can be bought by money. I'm definitely not going to look into the spiritual part but still we wishing for our good health remains as our least option most of the times and only if we are experiencing a bad health. But I feel that it should be our first option as we can enjoy anything only if we are healthy enough. If I ask you about the worst pain which you have ever experienced in life. Younger girls may speak about menstrual cramps, and women who newly arrived into Motherhood journey will speak about cramps during delivery. Women with migraine will always remember the severe headaches which attacks them all of a sudden. When we go through the extreme pain, what we pray at that particular mom

#wellbeingchallenge

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Today I just got a thought to pass on a simple challenge to my readers which I have challenged myself and through which I a beautiful and refreshing experience. All of us wanted to live healthy and peaceful. So let's take up this challenge of well-being. This challenge is as simple as that if we really have the sensibility to lead a successful life. Having said that Success should not be just a destination to reach in our life rather a journey which we desire to travel only if we keep learning and growing. Most of us don't undertake our thoughts in awareness. Rather, our thoughts control us. Without any much ado let's have a glance on this challenge. If we notice ourselves at any point of time there will be hardly any second or minute when we are actually living at present whole heartedly. Either we will be in our past or we will be in Future. If none of these we might be in some illusion or assumption. This might be dreaming or assuming about something or someo

A Bad day can be treated

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We all would have experienced a very bitter day when the day ended with a heated argument and we couldn't help in controlling our reaction which would have fuelled up the argument more. Now however what has happened we cannot change but what can be done so that the negative vibes will not spread to the very next day or into the near future. There are very few ways which can be followed by keeping our ego aside or just by keeping in mind that we need a positive Environment around us. Accept It  What do we feel when we get up in the morning of the very next day of a bad incident? The things turned up worst that the Universe seems to be conspiring against you. We don’t have control of most of things that happen to us and around us, however, we can control how we react to these moments and days where life just seems to push back really, really hard. Do we react with intense emotion and frustration and then carry that negativity with us, letting it spoil everything else we d

Happiness in your Hands

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Making your loved ones Happy is easy compared to making yourself Happy. Yes you read it right!! It's not easy to make your little Happy. If you find Happiness in other's Happiness then it's great but it's something good to say but you should organically feel that Happiness then only it matters. It's hard to find 2 people with identical interests and wishes then how can someone be Happy when the other person's wishes are full-filled. If so you will be known as a pure soul and selfless. Then the first point which I told will happen that you can make your loved ones Happy. Now the later part How to make yourself Happy?? I was a busy bee who was running the race to find myself Happy. I was ready to take pain to make my little Heart smile. And finally discovered few milestones to achieve my Happiness. Ignore the pain May be it is Physical ache or something which is causing you mental pain. Try to divert yourself in some activities which you love frequentl